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How to choose your Wedding Invitation Wording

How to Choose your Wedding Invitation Wording

Yay you’re getting married and you’ve started looking at wedding invitations… then you realise there are so many different wording options. Let’s chat about the different options for wedding invitation wording and I’ll give you some samples. Let’s look at what you need to consider.

Who is hosting the wedding?

When you consider wedding invitation wording samples, first think about who is hosting the wedding. The bride and groom, the brides parents, the grooms parents, both sets of parents, or it can be anybody else you want to include.

Sample of wedding invitation wording:

  1. {Bride’s Name} and {Groom’s Name} are getting married. This is an example of wedding invitation wording casual and is used when the couple are hosting. Check out the Emily Collection for this example wording.
  2. {Bride’s Name} and {Groom’s Name} together with their families invite you to celebrate their marriage. Check out the Alexandra and Pippa Collections for this example wording
  3. Together with their families {Bride’s Name} and {Groom’s Name} invite you to celebrate their marriage. Check out the Sara Collection for this example wording.
  4. Mr and Mrs {Father of the Bride’s Name} request the honour of your presence at the marriage of their daughter {Bride’s Name} to {Groom’s Name}. This is an example of wedding invitation wording formal and is used when the parents are hosting the wedding. Check out the Petite Fleur Collection for this example wording.

Names of the Couple

There is formal wedding invitation wording etiquette but depending on the style of your wedding will decide is this is right for you or not. Traditionally the bride’s name is printed first but you can go against tradition and print the groom’s name first. For same sex marriages you have the choice of who you want to choose to print first – many couples choose whichever they think sounds best for both of their names.

The location of the wedding

Always include the location of the ceremony, traditionally the full address would be included but it is now acceptable to include the ceremony location name and the general area as people can find the location themselves.

The Date and Times

You can choose the formal style of wording by including the full date and time or you can mix it up with full text writing, for example TWENTY SECOND OF APRIL or using roman numerals is another very elegant idea.

Reception Details

The format for the reception details follows a similar style to the ceremony location. You should include the name of the location and either it’s full address or it’s general location address. Be sure to also include the time the reception starts at and the expected finish time.

RSVP details

You have a few options when it comes to rsvp wedding invitation wording. Many couples choose an RSVP card which goes out with an addressed envelope with their invitation. The second option is to include the RSVP details on the bottom of the invitation or the third option is to include the RSVP website details on a details insert card. Whichever you choose is up to you and all are totally acceptable ways of including your RSVP details.

Details Cards

The details card can include many items of information, some of which I’ve listed below. Have a think about the most important information you want your guests to know and include this on the wedding details card. The wording of your wedding details card can include items like those listed below.

  • Inviting children
  • Accommodation
  • Directions
  • Gift List
  • Website RSVP
  • Dress Code
  • Dietary Requirements
  • Transportation

There are many options for wedding invitation wording and you will find the one that matches your style best, as a couple and for your wedding. Never worry if your wording is different to someone else’s as there is no right or wrong, there’s just you and your wedding! For more wedding inspiration check out my instagram page.

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Wax Seals, 5 uses in wedding stationery

Wax Seal Ideas for Wedding Stationery

If you are getting married then you have been scrolling through stationery ideas on instagram, creating pinterest boards and dreaming of your wedding invitations. And yes you have seen them, those little circles of beauty – wax seals!

Wax stamps were traditionally used as a way to secure envelopes and scrolls before self adhesive envelopes were invented. Wax seals served as a tamper proof security whereas these days they are ornamental and used as beautiful decorations. Traditionally envelopes were sealed by melting a wax stick and using a metal wax seal stamp to create the seal and leave a beautiful embellished design. Wax seals continue to be made this way using sealing wax and a wax stamp but we offer the convenient option of a self adhesive wax seal which means you simply have to peel and stick.

Seal your Wedding Envelopes with a Wax Seal

Yes, you heard me – peel and stick! Life is busy when you are planning a wedding so I plan to make this part a lot easier for you. Check out these ideas for sealing your wedding envelopes with wax seals. I offer wax seals in an array of colours and styles or read on to discover custom wax seals!!

Wax Seals on Wedding Invitations

So you decided you love wax seals and you don’t just want them on your wedding envelopes. Yes you are right, wax seals have other uses than just envelope wax seals. Follow the theme of wax seals through your wedding stationery. Wax seals look just as beautiful on wedding invitations as they do as a seal for an envelope. Have a look at our Alexandra collection to get some wedding invitation wax seal inspiration.

Wax Seals on Wedding Menus

Another place to feature wax seals in your wedding stationery is on your wedding menus. These menus from the Alexandra range will look elegant and stylish on your wedding tables. Your guests will be drooling over their wedding menu before they even see what is on the menu to eat.

Wax Seal embellished Wedding Place Names / Escort Cards

A wedding decoration theme is a thing of beauty and what better way to continue your wedding wax seal theme then to add them to your table place names or escort cards. Check out these examples from the Hanna and Emily Collections for inspiration.

Vow Booklets with Wax Seals

I have no doubt you’ve thought about ways to express your love to your partner on your wedding day, the words you will say that will start your marriage together. I think vow booklets are an essential extra to your wedding stationery. You can capture those words and remember them forever. Of course I offer ranges that include wax stamps as they bring such beauty and luxury to your weddings stationery.

Custom Wax Seals

So far I’ve shown you ideas for wax seals in a few styles and various colours. If you are thinking about custom wax stamps then look no further. Custom wax stamps are available in the same range of colours but I will work with you to design a custom wax seal stamp that is unique to your wedding stationery.

Custom wax seals offer you the ability to create a unique theme for your wedding stationery and carry it through each element. Custom stamps for wax seals can be made in a style that you love and are available as pre-made self adhesive stamps too.

Self Adhesive Wax Seals

Our wax seal kits are available in a range of styles and colours. Each pack includes 20 self adhesive wax seal stamps and comes in a little linen pouch. Browse through the colours and ranges and choose the style that you like or chat to me about a custom design.

For more wedding stationery inspiration follow me on instagram page for beautiful ideas.

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How to choose a first dance song

Wedding First Dance

How to choose your wedding first dance song

How do you choose your first dance song? That one song at your wedding that you will dance together to in front of all of your family and friends.

Your wedding first dance song is a personal choice, it’s unique to you as a couple and will hold meaning for both of you. You can rehearse in advance so that it is smooth and impressive. You don’t want to be tripping around the dance floor together.

Special Moment Together

The first dance together is a special moment, a moment during your wedding where you both stop, concentrate on each other and time is paused. You can create a romantic moment that you will cherish and remember forever.

bride and bride dancing

Style of Music

First dance songs at weddings are usually romantic songs with meaning, beautiful words that speak to you as a couple and reflect you both as well as your relationship together. Styles of music to consider range from a slow classical song to something a little more upbeat. A good place to do some research is on spotify, spotify puts together playlists – check out their Top 50 First Dance Songs playlist. Consider both of your abilities to dance and choose something that matches your style.

Ability to dance to it

You don’t have to be an unbelievable dancer to pull off a beautiful first dance together at your wedding. With some practice and time you can perfect a beautiful routine together that looks natural without looking choreographed.

True Meaning for both of you

Think about your relationship, from the beginning right up to now. Think of special times together, concerts, birthdays, Sundays spent listening to music together outside. Run through the words of the song in your head before you choose it as you want something which reflects your relationship and has meaning. You don’t want to pick up a song about a breakup just because you love that song.

first dance song

Wedding Vows

When you find a song that has real meaning for both of you, why not consider taking a line from the song and using it as part of your wedding vows. This idea creates a theme that runs through your wedding. You can capture your wedding vows in a booklet which you can cherish forever.

Ribbon Vow Booklets

A Classic Wedding Song

There are some classics that are chosen over and over again. These songs are all about love, everybody knows them but are they right for you?

  • Let’s Stay Together – Al Green
  • At Last – Etta James
  • Your Song – Elton John
  • I don’t want to miss a thing – Aerosmith
  • Somewhere over the Rainbow – Israel Kamakawiwoʻole

First Dance Song Suggestions

Here are some suggestions from classics to a little more unique. Try not to pick something that is totally obscure or something that is right on trend now. You want the song to stay with you forever so it has to have longevity.

  • Perfect – Ed Sheeran
  • All Of Me – John Legend
  • Something – The Beatles
  • A Thousand Years – Christina Perri
  • I’m Yours – Jason Mraz
  • Wonderful Tonight – Eric Clapton
  • Run – Leona Lewis
  • You’re My Best Friend – Queen
  • My Love Goes On – James Morrison and Joss Stone
  • Love Story – Taylor Swift
  • You Make It Real – James Morrison
  • Love You ‘Till the End – The Pogues
  • You’re Still the One – Shania Twain
  • Just the Way You Are – Bruno Mars
  • Make You Feel My Love – Adele
  • Falling In Love With You Again – Imelda May
  • Songbird – Eva Cassidy
  • Let There Be Love – Nat “King” Cole
  • You Do Something to Me – Paul Weller
  • Come What May – Ewan McGregor & Nicole Kidman
  • One Day Like This – Elbow
  • You’re the First, the Last, My Everything – Barry White
  • A Moment Like This – Kelly Clarkson
  • Can You Feel The Love Tonight – Elton John
  • Marry You – Bruno Mars
  • Better Together – Jack Johnson
  • Hero – Enrique Iglesias
  • Endless Love – Lionel Richie & Diana Ross
  • It Must Be Love – Madness
  • The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face – Roberta Flack
  • Kiss From A Rose – Seal
  • You’ve Got the Love – Florence + the Machine
  • Can’t Take My Eyes Off You – Andy Williams
  • Here Comes the Sun – The Beatles
  • The Reason – Hoobastank
  • If I Ain’t Got You – Alicia Keys
  • Come Away With Me – Norah Jones
  • Everything – Michael Bublé
  • We Have All The Time In The World – Louis Armstrong
  • Fly Me to the Moon – Frank Sinatra
  • You’re All I Need to Get By – Aretha Franklin
  • Romeo and Juliet – The Killers
  • How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved By You) – Marvin Gaye
  • Songbird – Oasis
  • The One – Kodaline
  • Us Against the World – Coldplay
  • You’re Beautiful – James Blunt
  • Little Things – One Direction
  • One Great Mystery – Lady Antebellum
  • Like Teenage Gravity – Counting Crows
  • Thank You – Led Zeppelin
  • Brown Eyed Girl – Van Morrison
  • Next to Me – Emile Sandé
  • At My Most Beautiful – R.E.M.
  • Better – Tom Baxter
  • Greatest Day – Take That
  • Drops Of Jupiter – Train
  • The Book of Love – Peter Gabriel
  • Yours – Ella Henderson
  • A Million Love Songs – Take That
  • I Knew I Loved You – Savage Garden
  • I Wanna Grow Old With You – Westlife
  • Last Night On Earth – Green Day
  • Accidentally In Love – Counting Crows
  • I Won’t Give Up – Jason Mraz
  • A Sky Full of Stars – Coldplay

I hope I have given you something to think about when it comes to your first dance song. Get some music on, listen to the words and find something that is the perfect choice for you both.